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When Life Slaps You in the Face


Life is never easy.

You wouldn’t know when, where, and how life would slap you in the face.

It may hurt and you cannot avoid it.

No matter how good you are, how you think you did your best, how much effort that you do, a problem will tackle you and let you down.

The main point about a problem is not how much did it hurt or how much it ruined your life.

The point is how you could handle it and how you could learn from it.

I know that you are human. Me too. No one can ever avoid getting hurt and upset.

It is okay.


In my opinion, it’s good to consider how the worst could possibly happened.

Not to make you pessimist. But to reduce the shock.

Getting ready to handle the problem.


Think about it. The problem may happen because of you.

After all this time, you are the most selfish person in your life.

You have lost so much because of your ego.

You should think more about other’s feeling too.

Do not neglect the reality that everyone has their own problem.

Thinking everything is all right means nothing is all right.


Let’s be real. If you still force yourself to others, thinking that you are the best, you will not survive.

Being rock-headed and selfish will ruin your relationship with others.

Forgive yourself.

Forgive the one that hurt you.

Forgive the one you hurt.

Yesterday’s problem is the past. It got resolved. Or else, the time will resolve it.

You don’t have to think about it more and more. Regret it. Or wish that it never happened in the first place.

Just move forward.

Knowing when and how to stop is not the same as surrender without trying. You have to believe what you believe.

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When Life Slaps You in the Face

by Gilang Agustiar time to read: 1 min
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